Actually this question reminds me of something that i noticed when i was like 18.... many of my very best friends i didn't necessarily like right off the bat. It's why i have a policy of never writing someone off for a bad first impression. Expecially since it could just as likely be *my* bad day that made me get a bad first impression!

anyways... enough musing.... i have things to do like hit the post offices and pay bills. later...